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“All you need is 20 seconds of insane courage.” - Benjamin Mee
Coterie Conversation Starters
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Ask About the Cafe: Start with, “Is this your favorite spot, or are you trying it out too?” or “What’s your go-to order here at Coterie Lounge and Cafe?” Locals love sharing tips!
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Mom-to-Mom Vibes: If you spot someone with a stroller or a kid, try, “Your little one is so cute! How old are they?” or “I swear coffee is my fuel for mom life—how about you?”
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Compliment Their Work Setup: Notice a laptop? Go for, “Your setup looks efficient! Are you working on something fun or just powering through emails?”
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Playful Cafe Comments: A light remark like, “They should totally name a latte after the regulars here, don’t you think?” can spark a smile and a convo.
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Share the Mom Hack: If you see another mom juggling coffee and kids, try, “I always go for the iced coffee to avoid spills—what’s your hack?” It’s relatable and easygoing.
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Ask for Advice: Spot someone with a killer coffee choice? “I can never decide here—what’s your favorite drink?” People love to share their faves.
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Work Talk Starter: For someone clearly working, a simple, “Are you a remote warrior or just escaping the office grind?” can get them chatting about work life.
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Compliment Genuinely: Something like, “I love your bag! It’s perfect for juggling work stuff and mom stuff,” is friendly and personal without being too much.
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Café Playlist Comment: If you notice someone tapping their foot to the music, try, “Coterie’s playlist is on point today, right?” It’s a smooth way to start talking.
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Mention the Decor: Something like, “The vibe in here is so cozy! Makes it way easier to get stuff done—or procrastinate,” can lead to laughs and convo.
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